Episodes

Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Tell Someone. Joel and Steve Talk About Suicide.
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
September 5-11 is Suicide Prevention Week. Joel and Steve talk about suicide. They also talk about the usual stuff - sushi, trust, organizational culture, Ivermectin etc.! (There is even a cameo by Joel's wife and past podcast guest Kjersten!)
Their friend and past podcast guest Charlie Shonka has a cool website with resources for people contemplating taking their own life:
There is also a national Suicide Prevention Hotline:
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
It's tangentially related - but Joel and Steve are fans of Rob Bell, whose latest podcast is straight fire:
https://robbell.podbean.com/e/the-fauci-of-it-all/
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#TootYourHooter #DontGiveUp

Thursday Sep 02, 2021
MONDO‘S MUNDO!! Joel and Steve talk with Armando McClain!
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
Joel and Steve talk with Armando McClain, Joel's pal from CalArts! They cover everything from growing up in Oakland, CA to teaching Shakespeare - and lots of points in between. Armando is a fascinating person, this is a great talk!
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#TootYourHooter #YouAreEnough

Thursday Aug 26, 2021
Steve Paints It Black
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
It is not lost on Joel and Steve that Charlie Watts - legendary drummer for The Rolling Stones - passed away a few days after their last podcast, which was named using a play on the name one of the most famous Rolling Stones songs. They wish peace and grace on the Watts family, and to Charlie's band mates.
This episode finds Joel and Steve unpacking the conundrum of being peaceful and loving while speaking truth to power and calling out injustice. When is something a difference in opinion, versus a difference in Morality? Is calling out obvious bullshit being holier than thou? Throw that in the pot with a monologue from Steve on the United States' long but predictable slide into authoritarianism and you've got a really great conversation between two pals just trying to navigate this crazy world with some grace.
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#TootYourHooter #SomeFolksLookForAnswers

Thursday Aug 19, 2021
(Should We Have) Symapthy For The Devil?
Thursday Aug 19, 2021
Thursday Aug 19, 2021
Joel and Steve work through the latest level of insanity of the global pandemic, and how to deal with people whose lack of empathy and thin grasp on reality is negatively impacting the lives of friends and loved ones who are doing the right thing.
They're both a bit over it - which makes for a great conversation as they try to navigate the seemingly endless morass of idiocy they are confronted with on a daily basis. Spoiler Alert - they up at Waffle House, like all good spiritual warriors!
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#TootYourHooter #ScatteredSmotheredandCovered #GetTheWaffle #GetTheJab

Thursday Aug 12, 2021
Joel and Steve On The Road!!
Thursday Aug 12, 2021
Thursday Aug 12, 2021
Joel and Steve head to Kansas City, MO to see Sleater-Kinney and Wilco live in concert! They get weird in their delightfully appointed hotel room and discuss quantum physics (they think) and, er, Pizza!
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#TootYourHooter #Minskys #BeingThere

Thursday Aug 05, 2021
MORE MUSIC!! Joel and Steve talk with James Beaudreau
Thursday Aug 05, 2021
Thursday Aug 05, 2021
Joel and Steve have the pleasure of talking with James Beaudreau - bandleader for the group Bell Helium out of New York City. James has had quite a journey musically, going from Big Rock to Jazz to the Dead and rolling it all up into his own thing! They talk about the creative process, what it's like to be a working musician in the big city, blowing up what you know to do something different - and generally have a good time!
Be sure to listen to the end, James was kind enough to provide a live track - "We Don't Have To Talk About It", recorded at The Bitter End in NYC March 7, 2020.
Check out Bell Helium at:
https://bellhelium.bandcamp.com/
If you have a turntable you should just buy the LP, it's great. Or check them out on Spotify, etc!
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#TootYourHooter #Plover

Thursday Jul 29, 2021
Is This Thing On? Joel and Steve actually see each other in person!
Thursday Jul 29, 2021
Thursday Jul 29, 2021
After 37 episodes recorded over Zoom - Joel and Steve are finally able to get together in person! They cover everything from how nice it is to see each other, to the Eightfold Path (and how they are trying and failing and trying to be on it), dogs, chickens, Phish, Get the Damn Vaccine you Idiots and More!
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#TootYourHooter #SimplesAndSkyscrapers

Thursday Jul 22, 2021
Sometimes You Find Onions In The Garage
Thursday Jul 22, 2021
Thursday Jul 22, 2021
Joel and Steve reconnect over an experience that Joel had in his garage that day - finding relics from the past that bring up more feelings than anyone should have while performing a routine task. So they process that, then discuss things that are actually important - like where to get ice cream and resentments over/at beloved restaurants!
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#TootYourHooter #StepIntoTheFreezer

Thursday Jul 15, 2021
Happy Birthday Mr. President!!
Thursday Jul 15, 2021
Thursday Jul 15, 2021
Joel and Steve get together for a few minutes to celebrate Joel's birthday, and to talk about fessing up.
This is a 'short stuff' episode, Joel and Steve will be back in full force next week!
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#TootYourHooter #41IsTheNew35

Thursday Jul 08, 2021
MUSIC, THEATER and WRITING - OH MY!! Joel and Steve talk with Anne DeAcetis
Thursday Jul 08, 2021
Thursday Jul 08, 2021
Joel and Steve get to chat with Joel's CalArts alum pal Anne DeAcetis! Anne is an accomplished professional musician, actress and writer - they get to talk about all of the things! Anne is the vocalist for a band called Bell Helium - they have a new record out, check that out at https://bellhelium.bandcamp.com/, or wherever you listen to music!
See more about Anne at her website:
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#TootYourHooter #Blue50th